Kant’s Philosophy of Friendship, and How it Differed from Aristotle’s.

In his youth and middle age, the sharply dressed Immanuel Kant (1724-1804) moved in Königsberg’s most refined circles and often stayed out into the small hours. In this period, his student Johann Gottfriend Herder described him as “the most urbane fellow in the world.”
But when Kant turned forty, he underwent a midlife transformation. He quite literally sobered up, abandoning carefree carousing for the disciplined life of the mind. This profound change owed to the early death of a close friend, the dissolute Johann Daniel Funk, together with the making of a new friend, the English merchant Joseph Green, who lived by the clock. Kant essentially adopted Green’s modus vivendi.
Kant’s Daily Routine, and How It Helped Him
For the rest of his productive life, Kant employed a retired solder, Martin Lampe, to wake him up at precisely five-to-five every morning. Lampe would stride into his master’s bedroom and cry out, “Herr Professor, the time is come!” Or in German, Herr Professor, es ist Zeit!
Kant worked at his desk in his nightclothes until his lectures began at seven. At eleven, he would change back into nightclothes and return to his desk. The working day effectively ended at one, when he would take lunch in company in a public inn or restaurant. Lunch would end at three with a round of manufactured jokes—in the belief that laughter was good for digestion.
At three, after lunch, Kant would take his daily constitutional around Königsberg. He would walk alone, from fear that outdoor conversation would lead him to breathe through the mouth. He often wound up at Green’s, with whom he liked to discuss Hume and Rousseau. It is said that the housewives of Königsberg would set their timepieces by the time—seven sharp—at which he left Green’s house.
By automating trivial daily decisions, Kant’s rigid daily routine freed his mind to focus purely on philosophy. It’s because of Kant that I have six of the same shirt.
Kant’s Jokes and Philosophy of Laughter
What kind of jokes did Kant tell after lunch? Some of his jokes have come down to us in his writing. For instance: A man tried to arrange a solemn funeral for a rich relative, but failed in the task: “The more I paid my mourners, the merrier they looked.” A merchant sailed back from India with his fortune, but, in a violent storm, had to throw all his cargo overboard. This upset him so much that his wig turned grey overnight.
Laughter, Kant thought, “is an affect resulting from the sudden transformation of a heightened expectation into nothing.” The mind is deceived into tensing up, but with the deception revealed suddenly relaxes, leading to laughter, which mimics the motions of the mind and is extremely health-giving. Kant never laughed at his own jokes, but always kept a straight face.
In The Critique of Pure Judgement (1790), Kant quoted Voltaire in saying that Heaven had given us two comforts against life’s hardships, hope and sleep—before suggesting that Voltaire “could have added laughter.”
The Death of Joseph Green
In 1786, Joseph Green died, deeply affecting Kant, who, thereafter, became a lot more housebound.
After a suitable period of mourning, Kant recruited a female cook and began hosting protracted lunches aimed at stimulating the play of thoughts. To this end, he gathered guests from diverse backgrounds and perspectives, believing that the ideal number of guests lay somewhere in between that of the Graces and the Muses (three and nine). All topics great and small were on the table. Philosophy was allowed but not dogmatism, for fear that it would interrupt the convivial flow of ideas.
As well as wine, Kant had a taste for Königsberger Klopse (meatballs in a creamy white sauce with capers), Teltow turnips (an heirloom turnip from the Berlin-Brandenburg region), roast beef, cod, and, as a condiment for the above, English mustard, which he mixed himself.
Kant’s Philosophy of Friendship
Joseph Green was the closest friend that Kant ever had. Green had inspired Kant’s routine, and became his philosophical sounding board. Kant allegedly discussed every single sentence of the Critique of Pure Reason with Green before publishing it in 1781.
In the Metaphysics of Morals (1797), Kant ended his discussion of character traits just like, in the Nicomachean Ethics, Aristotle ended his discussion of the same: with an analysis of friendship.
In the Nicomachean Ethics, Aristotle made much of the idea of “perfect friendship”, which, he thought, is only possible between men of reason and virtue. He famously described a perfect friend as “another self”—later paraphrased by Diogenes Laertius as “a single soul dwelling in two bodies.”
Kant deemed “perfect friendship” an ideal that in practice cannot be attained. But in striving for it, we might nonetheless arrive at “moral friendship,” in which two persons feel able to disclose their secret thoughts and feelings to each other. Moral friendship requires a savant mélange of love and respect, love for bringing two people together, and respect for not driving them apart by infringing upon their dignity and autonomy.
From his own experience, Kant came to believe that most people cannot develop their true character until middle age, when they might undergo a “rebirth”. At twenty, we are no more than the product of our upbringing and environment. At thirty, we are still reliant on the judgement and approval of others. Only at forty are we confident enough (or perhaps tired enough) to become who we truly are.
Neel Burton is the author of the newly published The German Greeks: German Philosophy and the German Philosophers.






















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